When you seek the welfare of others rather than judging them, you are God like. A less fortunate person than yourself should be the object of your love not criticism. Whether their misfortune is their own doing or lack thereof, you, who would claim the favor of God, should have nothing but compassion for them.
When I was a child, my grandfather made a great impression on me. He over heard me talking about someone in a not so flattering way. His one statement left me feeling embarrassed and ashamed – “If you cannot say something nice about someone then say nothing at all.”
Thought: How to live free from worry
Matt 6:33
But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Our first priority is to seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness means to turn to him first for help, to fill your thoughts with his desires, to take his character for your pattern, and to serve and obey him in everything. What is really important to you? People, objects, goals and other desires all compete for priority. Any of these can quickly bump God out of first place if you don’t actively choose to give him first place in your life.
“Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow, it only saps today of its joy.” ~Leo Buscaglia
Letting go is one of the hardest lessons in life. It's easy to form an attachment to people and things. When you've formed an attachment to people and things, it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that it's time to let go.
Phil 3:7
But what things were gain to me, those I counted loss for Christ.