We all have had our good times as well as bad times. We enjoy and are delighted when happy times come our way, but how you cope with the bad times that can destroy you or make you grow and give you strength to face what ever life throws at you. As for me when I was thirty one years old when I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. I had three small children the youngest was only three years old. My first reaction was total devastated and ask my family and friends to please leave because I needed time to deal with this.